Standing in the distance...

I try to remember what was on my mind, what was that special thing I had been searching. What meanings I was looking for, on what I've actually become. As I stand and look forward, I could see the things I wanted in my life and as I try to step towards them I felt a force pulling me back.

Was I dreaming? Everything seems blur. I was playing with my best buddies and there I am chatting with my siblings at my full volume but then why I felt lost? Have I lost everybody or everybody has lost me? I felt the silence in me.

I opened my eyes and tried to figure out what was going on in my mind. Everything seems normal. I stepped outside to start my day but then I saw faces I have never seen before. They were rushing in great agony towards nothing! Everybody was confused about their own beings, they didn't know why they were running. Someone was searching for his lost self, someone was searching for the lost joy and someone was just asking what he is doing on this earth. When people mourn, and they do that a lot, their brains stop working they could see nothing but darkness and afraid to see the light just for the fear of meeting with the darkness again, I thought.

In rushing through our lives, we literally rush towards nothingness, we start developing distance with our own self. There comes a stage in our lives when we see our self standing in the distance with our inner self. When we are living we focus on how much we get and less on how much we give. How good it would be when we'll meet with ourselves. Life would be a totally different experience then. We'll love ourselves and others equally, we'll understand the meaning of life. But this we could only hope because we've gone too far and the distance has become too great. To cover such a distance and coming back is really a great deal of work.


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Randomly random

I'm in love with the word random. Everything is random in this world, you don't know when it's scorching heat outside and you could expect nothing but dryness and all of a sudden clouds come over and it starts raining. You're driving a car and its speed is random, you can't expect it to be constant on an empty road even. We are walking fresh and the very next moment we want to sleep. We're working but can't resist watching TV at the same time. People all around the globe make plans, daily new plans but very few stick to them and many start making different plans again with the start of another day. We love one thing for some specific period of time then the same thing becomes boring and dull for us. Random! But if we start observing our random thoughts and actions we know we're observing the phenomena of nature. Nothing can remain constant in this life. We can't expect even ourselves to be the same, we change as the day and night changes.
Today, the purpose of my this blog was just to request that don't stick to one thing and don't close the door to new opportunities. Life is random, so are we!

(I know this blog should have been elaborated more but sometimes it is good to understand somethings on your own :P Good luck!)

Just another thought

Every morning do bring new promises, opportunities, delights and hopes. What we lost today, what we cannot bring back must be forgotten; life is full of other surprises. There are many hidden truth that must be known. We should not stick to the grief, we’ll lose many other great things that ought to change our lives, the way we think about life. Complexities of life cannot be resolved in just one night, there are reasons, reason for everything happening around us. If you take people for granted today, how can you expect others will care about you and love you to their fullest, why? They too have the right to take you for granted. There’s a action reaction phenomenon everywhere if you closely observe. We really don’t stuck into a problem without our own wrong doings, it’s what we had been doing in our lives. Only trying to be happy, finding happiness everyday doesn't guarantee you true success and happiness, you have to follow some measures in your life. Sacrifice is there, giving away love is there, caring others and lot of other things. Stop thinking who cares about us; start thinking about how many people do you care about.
Trap yourself in your thoughts or release yourself from them, it all depends upon you, no one can help you in this regard.

Revitalize

Coming back here after such a long time tells I'd been really busy, but was I? Well, something tells me I was! Anyway, coming back to normal tells me the importance of revitalization. We really need a break from our all-the-same routine life. Revitalization doesn't mean you simply sit in front of a television and think it will reenergize you, but no I totally disagree because you won't feel fresh, remember your brain is neutral when you're busy watching TV? No productive thing is expected then! I would like to share how I revitalize myself when I really need to, it simply needs a little effort and you're all done.

- Simply start by any idea you think you haven't experimented with before. Once you've got hold of the idea you must be ready to experiment with it.

- If you think you are out of ideas simply go for a walk, observe everything that comes your way. Be conscious of selecting the right time because you don't want ending up being more frustrated, right?

- Change is important for everyone, don't wait so long that you would be wasted, let go off past bad experiences and start taking life in more dimensions where you know you won't repeat the mistakes you've done before.

- Help others where you think you can, without expecting from others.

- Be a freestyler, but appreciate others as well!

- If you think you're losing essence in your life, you really need to check yourself for what you've been doing.

- If your life's moto is sleep, eat and take some more rest, change it to; act, share, understand!

blown up, are you?

Trying to be nice and blowing up at the moment when you really need to be calm does not solve any problem. The feelings of guilt and regret never leaves you subsequently then. You end up being someone you never wanted to be and left your image in someone’s heart as you never were. How to solve this problem? Don’t you think it’s all easy and simple, maybe not in the initial but when you get use to it, you start to apply simple strategies to overcome your abrupt anger! How to tackle with such situations? One rule of thumb is to let other person speak and think swiftly whether you really can solve the problem by getting irritated or let the situation pass quietly. I know it’s hard especially when your mind suddenly blows up and you don’t know what to do. Every person differs from other to some extent, we do share common attributes among ourselves but we can never guarantee the act we adopted today will be followed by us throughout our lifetime. By the passage of time we’ve to change many things including our nature. Anger makes you feel irritated, irritation then leads to aggression and aggression consequently leads to regression. What a long chain of destruction, then why in simple and small matters that could be solved polity we should waste our energies? And how can I go without writing what I like the most- the impact of feelings in one’s life. Life is not about feeling what others think about, what others want, what’s their perspective of life is, but finding the right path which you should follow and be a successful person. Always try to quell things with clemency as much as possible. Coolness and calmness are the greatest attribute in one’s life!

Who's got what it takes....

Who must be where who knows but are you confident about yourself for what you are doing and where are you standing in your life today? Do you know your potentials? Do you have the courage to talk just right no matter what? Are you the real you? I guess these questions come to every person's mind, but we don't like to think about such matters much. We are happy with what we are getting without sometimes thinking from where it is coming. We are not bothered if there is killing, hunger, injustice and what not out there. We think yes it's bad but what can we do? No one will listen to us! We could do a lot of things on our behalf starting from small things. Making our rules to forgive and forget, to seek knowledge even if we're getting from a child. To let go our personal interest and try to overcome the difficulties of the people who really needs help. Small things do make a lot of difference. Think!

Marine life exposed :D

Imagine what will happen if all the sea animals will get to know that they are being captured and there are several exclusive channels that broadcast about their lives day and night! W oho I'm excited how they will react. Mr. Whale, the king of sea, will get angry and will call immediate meeting to acknowledge others that their privacy has been attacked(silly doesn't know it's too late for all this now). The dolphins will not react as their cool 'n' calm nature doesn't allow them to and will continue doing what they does. There will be sadness among all the small creatures living under the sea for they will get to know that stories of their beloved ones being eaten is shown all over the world, how cruel was that! And there will be panic among those who did nothing except eating and spreading terror over the watery creatures! But whatever their reaction might be why should I bother? I love to see them on air and can't hide my camera in front of them ;).

Jal-Victimize

Lately ‘Jonas Brothers’ had been my victims but only for their music, now I don’t see anything wrong with them! This month ‘Jal’ has hit my victim list, what caught my attention was their recent photo is some children magazine that look obviously so cheap but at the same time merely a copy of some western artist; that’s ridiculous! Anyone who listen music with their ears open could guess their all the same rhythms and tones that’s not likely to change in the coming 5 years! So, I suggest Jal to focus more on music than on mere advertisement.

Brain damage

Thoughts are enough for a person to make him or her sad, happy, mad or even dead! Physical harm can heal; it may have reason, but damage to brain may not heal; it may or may not have reason. What is brain damage? My mind can't stop thinking, there's nothing left when one's brain is damage! When I tried to find answers I got to know there are many possible conditions for brain damage that is related with certain kind of illness that could be reason of any injury. But still it's a term not fully discovered yet. There are only 20 to 25% researches that try to give answers for brain damage but no one knows what is actually behind it! May be I think an impression of damage is caused on the brain when the picture in brain drawn by the human through thoughts and experiences is destroyed and no other alternative image had been drawn for protection; when the other side of picture is left blank. Only few could survive brain damage, but there are those who bear harsh realities and move on building pictures in their minds on their way! Here I remember Pink Floyd’s song brain damage; ‘And if the dam breaks open many years too soon…And if there is no room upon the hill…And if your head explodes with dark forebodings too…I’ll see you on the dark side of the moon’

Running from danger isn't the solution

Exam stress, projects dates coming closer to deadline, no syllabus is cover, what a great misery one feels to be in these situations! But these stages comes in every person’s live who has taken an academic career. Some students know how to manage time, how to cope with every stress knowing how to better their performance. They are those who believes in themselves, they know they have got guts and they can prove themselves. But there lies another category among students who despite every great possible opportunity manages to miss it, learn how not to avail it and in the end blame the time. Some will prefer simply failing in the subject while some will find ways to get rid of it with every little effort. Those who are serious about their lives don’t try to do such things but we know nowadays this has almost become an exception because people now prefer running away from hardwork, giving up has become their favourite norm and laziness is their ruling master. Take time and think what you are doing, are you on the right direction?

people out of mind on roads!!

Ever wonder while leaving home on your car whether you'll return alive or not? Yes, it's a question worth considering. Only able to race car is nothing to get proud of if you don't have the right road sense in you. People seems to be in some kind of show while they drive thinking themselves as there are the only perfect ones out there. I don't know why on earth people have stopped thinking! Not only they can ruin their own lives but the lives of others as well. I'm so out of my mind today, I can't stop thinking what has happened to people? why they don't think!!!

Writing's everyone's interest but a problem to start for all

These days the trends in writing are blazing high. Everyone wants to express his/her feeling by using the powerful tool of writing. The growing trends of blogging, easy ways to get published in some newspaper drew a more enthusiasm in writers. But the main problem resides in starting , when writers have something on their minds they find it hard to express those idea in words, they will stay long time starring at the computer screen or at the paper wondering where to really start from. Often people wonder what there’s so special to become a writer, how does people do that!! But let me tell you becoming a writer isn’t a very difficulty thing, neither is it impossible. You just need to put those grey cells of your brain into some working. There are a few tips one must consider :

· Always carry a small notebook and a pen with you, whenever some idea struck you immediately note in down, work laterly to make it better.
· Discuss with close friends/colleagues, siblings and your parents about your ideas asking for their opinion, welcome every criticism and work on it.
· Don’t be afraid of people thinking they will make fun of your writing just have faith and confidence in yourself and your writings.
· Concentrate and work hard while giving any opinion of yours in your writing being caution about people who takes that serious!
· Do not think you will become a good writer in a day you have to have patience. Work slowly but daily no matter what your profession is.
· Appreciate others but don’t copy someone’s material it might help you in some way but will effect you in a long way and also it will block your own creative skills.
· Feel free to write on anything.