blown up, are you?

Trying to be nice and blowing up at the moment when you really need to be calm does not solve any problem. The feelings of guilt and regret never leaves you subsequently then. You end up being someone you never wanted to be and left your image in someone’s heart as you never were. How to solve this problem? Don’t you think it’s all easy and simple, maybe not in the initial but when you get use to it, you start to apply simple strategies to overcome your abrupt anger! How to tackle with such situations? One rule of thumb is to let other person speak and think swiftly whether you really can solve the problem by getting irritated or let the situation pass quietly. I know it’s hard especially when your mind suddenly blows up and you don’t know what to do. Every person differs from other to some extent, we do share common attributes among ourselves but we can never guarantee the act we adopted today will be followed by us throughout our lifetime. By the passage of time we’ve to change many things including our nature. Anger makes you feel irritated, irritation then leads to aggression and aggression consequently leads to regression. What a long chain of destruction, then why in simple and small matters that could be solved polity we should waste our energies? And how can I go without writing what I like the most- the impact of feelings in one’s life. Life is not about feeling what others think about, what others want, what’s their perspective of life is, but finding the right path which you should follow and be a successful person. Always try to quell things with clemency as much as possible. Coolness and calmness are the greatest attribute in one’s life!

Who's got what it takes....

Who must be where who knows but are you confident about yourself for what you are doing and where are you standing in your life today? Do you know your potentials? Do you have the courage to talk just right no matter what? Are you the real you? I guess these questions come to every person's mind, but we don't like to think about such matters much. We are happy with what we are getting without sometimes thinking from where it is coming. We are not bothered if there is killing, hunger, injustice and what not out there. We think yes it's bad but what can we do? No one will listen to us! We could do a lot of things on our behalf starting from small things. Making our rules to forgive and forget, to seek knowledge even if we're getting from a child. To let go our personal interest and try to overcome the difficulties of the people who really needs help. Small things do make a lot of difference. Think!

Marine life exposed :D

Imagine what will happen if all the sea animals will get to know that they are being captured and there are several exclusive channels that broadcast about their lives day and night! W oho I'm excited how they will react. Mr. Whale, the king of sea, will get angry and will call immediate meeting to acknowledge others that their privacy has been attacked(silly doesn't know it's too late for all this now). The dolphins will not react as their cool 'n' calm nature doesn't allow them to and will continue doing what they does. There will be sadness among all the small creatures living under the sea for they will get to know that stories of their beloved ones being eaten is shown all over the world, how cruel was that! And there will be panic among those who did nothing except eating and spreading terror over the watery creatures! But whatever their reaction might be why should I bother? I love to see them on air and can't hide my camera in front of them ;).

Jal-Victimize

Lately ‘Jonas Brothers’ had been my victims but only for their music, now I don’t see anything wrong with them! This month ‘Jal’ has hit my victim list, what caught my attention was their recent photo is some children magazine that look obviously so cheap but at the same time merely a copy of some western artist; that’s ridiculous! Anyone who listen music with their ears open could guess their all the same rhythms and tones that’s not likely to change in the coming 5 years! So, I suggest Jal to focus more on music than on mere advertisement.

Brain damage

Thoughts are enough for a person to make him or her sad, happy, mad or even dead! Physical harm can heal; it may have reason, but damage to brain may not heal; it may or may not have reason. What is brain damage? My mind can't stop thinking, there's nothing left when one's brain is damage! When I tried to find answers I got to know there are many possible conditions for brain damage that is related with certain kind of illness that could be reason of any injury. But still it's a term not fully discovered yet. There are only 20 to 25% researches that try to give answers for brain damage but no one knows what is actually behind it! May be I think an impression of damage is caused on the brain when the picture in brain drawn by the human through thoughts and experiences is destroyed and no other alternative image had been drawn for protection; when the other side of picture is left blank. Only few could survive brain damage, but there are those who bear harsh realities and move on building pictures in their minds on their way! Here I remember Pink Floyd’s song brain damage; ‘And if the dam breaks open many years too soon…And if there is no room upon the hill…And if your head explodes with dark forebodings too…I’ll see you on the dark side of the moon’